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Has someone you know died?

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Bereavement Advice for children and young people

If you know someone who has recently died who is important to you, there is help out there for you. It can feel very lonely. The feelings we have about this are called ‘grief’ and every one experiences it differently. It can include shock, anger, numbness, guilt and much more. Feeling numb, or having no feelings at all is common as you cope with the death of someone.

Many people feel they can’t go on with day to day life and people get behind with school work, drop out of clubs or activities because it is all too much.

If someone in your family has died this can mean a lot of change in the family and will mean other people are also grieving. It’s good to remember that we all experience grief differently there is no right way to be sad about a death. Supporting each other is important.

The main thing to remember is that you are not alone and there are people out there who will want to help and some who have experienced what you are experiencing.

Some people find it really helpful to talk to friends, teachers or other adults that are trusted. Talking really does help.

You can get help from your GP and they will be able to help you find a local agency to talk to if you want that.

Some of the local organisations you can use are: (click on the links)

The Dove Service - 01782 683155

North Staffs Mind – 01782 262100

Winston’s Wish
The largest charity provider of support to bereaved children, young people and their families in the UK.
Telephone: 08088 020 021

 Child Bereavement UK (Support and Information)
Rebuilding lives together. We can provide booked telephone support sessions for you as an individual or couple with a qualified counsellor. Please call us to find out more.  
Telephone: 0800 02 888 40

Many people ask how long will I feel like this, well it is different for all and feelings come and go. Be patient with yourself and remember you are still able to laugh and have fun this doesn’t mean that you have forgotten the person or they mean less to you.

"Help Is At Hand" A resource for people bereaved by suicide and other sudden, traumatic death - (Click on the related links below to view the document) 

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